April 28, 2011
My Personal Thoughts
My dear readers, enjoy my blog so far? All the pics of me having lots of fun in my life? Nice right? Wana download ALL and put on your wall and remind yourself how pathetic yours is? Go ahead, I'm proud to do that for you, although your computer is so god damned dirty, full of things that cannot see light one. Is this all you can do? Haha. Don't make me laugh. Continue to do all these. See if I care. Later you get more older and more wasted and more pathetic don't blame us laugh at you coz you deserved it. Zhen shi KE BEI de lan nv ren. In the end still yi ge ren gu ling ling ke lian de guo while we happily ever after. Sigh. Zhen ke lian ah~
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Don't laugh too soon.. and she is not fighting this battle alone.. she have many people supporting her behind.. and as for you, we are watching how your life will end up being with Alex Choi..
We shall see then =)
No problem.. bring it on.. the exciting episodes is going to broadcast soon.. stay tune and don't blink.. ;)
Why are you so silly to stand on the opp side to help ruin your own family? Aren't your own parents heartbroken enough? You know very well how fake she is, how she treat your kid and parents, how she be "nice" to you when she need you to do things for her, how she plot everything things and make things happen her way and create chaos in your family, how she can do so much harm to other people and go around brag about it yet go carefree? If she can do all these to everyone around her INCLUDING her own family, why not to you too? Coz you didnt know what she did to you behind your back? Or is it you dont dare to face the hard facts or listen to the truth of how someone so "nice" to you in front could do all those to you behind? We dont need and dont want to fight with you. We have nothing against you nor your parents. We are still trying very hard to prove our innocence and to prove how evil and dirty that woman is. You choose which side you want to stand. Either the side of that woman and continue ruining your family's life, or on your family's side and give peace to your parents.
Well said Rosie!
Well, you want to talk about that huh?? First thing first, this is a family affair and you ain't my parent's daughter-in-law nor my sister-in-law.. what give you the rights to comment during our quarrel at Lorong Ah Soo that time?? Second, you and Alex came to borrow $25k from my folks, you pretended to be nice and the money got transferred into YOUR bank account on 30 Apr 2010.. Good job!! Then on 30 Nov 2010, you both came again and asked for $14k.. this time, you patted my mum's back and coaxed her into giving you guys the money again.. well, another $4k into YOUR bank account again.. what about the $25k given 7 months ago?? You both had a good time spending the money huh?? Even a property course wouldn't cost that much.. and now Alex claimed in court that he is giving $300 to my folks per month?? Giving false statement huh?? For your information, my parent are living very well now.. it's Alex who is not giving them peace, disturbing them all the time.. Where got children be so cruel to ask their parents to make a will before going to commit suicide?? It's you who have not seen his true colors..
Hmmm, about the money, I'm not fully aware on what is happening.. Sigh.. You know him.. Whatever he ask me to do I have to do if not quarrel nonstop lo so sian.. Didn't know there's so much involved.. And about the will thing, I didn't hear him say anything about asking your folks to make any will.. The only will thing I heard him said about is he himself had made a will that if he go and die, all his money and stuffs will go to his folks.. Even have seen the letter myself stating that the will have been made successful.. Am I missing something?? Didn't hear anything about the $300 per month thing either.. Damn.. So hard to believe what's in front of me these days..
Haha.. after patting my mum's back to borrow money and you said you ain't aware huh?? My mum will remember it for life.. you don't have to be so nice here coz I know all the things you said about me during our family meeting.. both of you can say whatever now since you have gotten the money.. the will he made does not serve any good purpose.. in the event that he go and die, he does not have anything left for my folks except for his debts.. and mind you, my folks never ever mention about supporting him financially.. it was meant to be a loan..
well, it's up to you if you wana believe if i say i seriously dono much.. and i also dono what you are talking abt what "talking abt you during family meetings". so far he have not told me much abt you nor abt your husband's family. i'm not so kay poh and so free to find out either. everyone have their own life whether it's a happy or not ending. i have my own life and own family to keep busy about. if you still wana believe that he is a bu siao zi then go ahead be stubbon. i believe what i see with my eyes. perhaps it's better you all don know what his will is abt. and abt supporting financially, i also dono what you are talking abt either. seems like you and him have tons and tons of misunderstandings and made-up stories by everyone around you. as i said. choose what you wan to believe, it's your choice, nobody can force you. but seems like the things you chose to believe are making your folks and you very upset for Nothing, but it was chosen by you, i have nothing to say. i can only pray every day that your folks and mine are not so xing ku every single day.
oh, and one more thing. i'm not trying to shine your boots nor make you feel happy or what. but the only thing i know abt you is that i love the way you stood up for your husband during that night when they said saying he was an "outsider". you have stood up for your husband despite your own family members going against him. the both of us fought for each other and tried very hard to protect each other. it was a scene i have seen with my own eyes which i believe it myself. other things others said i just listen but didnt believe coz i did not see with my own eyes not witness anything. thats all i wan to say
Well, since when did my parents became stories-makers?? Yes, it's my choice to choose who to believe and I choose my folks.. and the root of cause for my folks to be upset?? It is Alex.. not returning the money you both borrowed from them and still asking for more.. I also believe what I see with my eyes.. the account is under your name and don't tell me that you don't know anything.. bank book doesn't tell lies and don't feign ignorance.. and knowing him, he wouldn't die so easily.. otherwise, he will not call my parents and threaten to die if they doesn't help him.. continue to help him, cover for him.. of course if you really can happily ever after with him, we will be happy for both of you..
I will protect my folks by all means from Alex.. like he always said, retribution will befall but let's not talk about this for now.. time will tell everything..
I will not comment whether your folks are story makers or not. It's rude to comment on other people's parents. But it's also not correct to just listen to one side. But again, it's your choice to whether you and Alex wan to communicate to clear the misunderstandings anot. I only see with my own eyes now that you and your folks are getting upset over things that are not true. It's so silly, and I feel a deep heartpain for the old folks.
Regarding the passbook, believe it or not, neither the card nor the book are with me. it's ridiculars and unbelievable, but again it's up to you if you wan to belive anot. I do not cover things that are not right. If he did wrong, i do not forgive him either. I have confronted him regarding the loans. He SAID he have plans to return it and have not planned to take it and not return. Whether he really meant to say it or do it, i can only let time to prove it. i will not swear for him.
Regarding the calls of threatening to die, i was beside him most of the time during the calls, and i could be a witness that he did not THREATEN to die. He said he would be dead if your folks would not help him. I could also be a witness that his calls of help were not all concerned on money matters. some were on other areas too. too bad your folks nor you could give him a chance to hear and believe him. so in the end the both of us struggled alot but things are still not working out..
i do not blame you for siding the wrong place coz you have been brainwashed. i just feel a deep feeling of pity that you could not be sensible enough to listen to both side and be sensible enough to judge things properly. do note that i am NOT referring between your folks and him.
and for the folks, please do help me comfort them that he seriously do still have them deep in his heart. his biggest wish in his life now have nothing to do with me. instead, his ultimate wish is to save enough to bring his folks overseas because his mom have never sit in an plane before. almost everyday he talk abt it.
thanks for your wishes for our happily ever after. my biggest wish for your family is that chinese new year can have everyone in your family have a happy meal together on the same table while the folks are still around.. it's so heartbreaking for me to celebrate / hang out with my own family only and he could not with his.. do rmb that the folks cant be around forever.. please do something so that the folks could retire with a happy heart to see their children together with them.. remember that communication is the key.. take care babe..
and babe, with you and him ruining your family and making your folks so miserable, guess who is laughing at the back.. i don have to name that person.. just rmb that things sometimes are not as simple as it look, and simple things are actually very complicated.. please open your eyes and find out the real face behind the masks.. it's your family.. nobody else could help them..
You are listening to one-sided story too, aren't you?? Do you know Christina well?? Have you ever talk or get to know her before?? If not then how come you know so much about her?? That is because you have been listening too much and been brainwashed by Alex..
I believe Alex would have told you how my Dad and I 'forced' him to marry Christina.. If he wants to talk about things such as "if we never forced to get married, all these wouldn't have happened", then why don't he think that "if he never get acquainted with Christina, all these wouldn't have happened".. but since all these has taken place, stop bringing them up and make threats to my parents!! He is the one who committed a mistake and yet wanted to get off the hook.. He is good at playing mind games to my folks and thus conned their hard-earned money.. My parents are in this plight all because of him.. if he really meant to borrow, he need not use all these 'reasons' to achieve his goal.. if you both are still not convinced that the child belongs to Alex, a DNA report will prove everything.. once the DNA is done, NOTHING he can do or say to run away from the maintenance order.. no need to play dirty tricks to say the child does not belong to him.. He always tell my parents that he borrowed the money to conduct the DNA test but till now, NOTHING WAS DONE..
Like you say, I believe what I see with my eyes.. I do not know you so well though but the transaction bear your name and account and so, how do you want me to believe your words?? It's totally absurd!! It's alright for you to 'feel' that I'm not sensible coz you do not know me well enough.. I would say that I am being rational enough to differentiate what's right and wrong.. whereas for you, I do send my warmest regards but I hope you will not become another victim of his..
Please do not ask me to convey his words to my parents, I will not tell them anything, for actions speaks louder than words.. communication takes place in the mind of the listener, not the speaker.. if a person keep telling lies and leave his parents in the lurch when they needed him the most, it is very hard to gain their trust again.. if he really meant it, work on it, put them into actions and not just by talking about it.. they have heard enough and tired.. We are very "down-to-earth" people, earning a salary and pray that will strike 4D or ToTo somehow.. My parents don't wish for a very luxurious living.. We don't do things that is beyond our capabilities.. know where we stand, be contented and most importantly, don't do anything at the expense of sacrificing the family's happiness..
Who doesn't hope for a nice family dinner?? But if his return is up to no good, we rather do it without him.. and offering back the words you said, some things or person are not as simple as it appears to be.. human relations are always complex.. I don't want to comment much.. All I can say is you have to take very 'good care of yourself'..
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